women and men.. they r born to be different.. people always sae they r different because opposite attracts.. their differences complement each other to make a perfect couple.. because they r not e same.. their perspective about things would not be identical too.. women are emotional .. men r rational.. women go by their heart... men jus use their head .. women feel but many men judge things from e appearance.. esp about pretty gals? hahaa... i am not generalising here.. but u have to admit dat men and women tend to have all these traits.. y do i suddenly tok abt all these.. there are so many incidents whereby men .. married men fooling outside behind their wives' backs... when everyone else would neva imagine coz the married couple is so loving.. no one wld expect the guy to have an affair outside.. i believe the men love their wives.. some r v nice to their wives.. but they jus wanna have thrills by having an affair outside coz they can raw a line clearly between love and sex.. they noe v clearly they are married and wld go back to their wives one dae after they have had enuff fun .. they noe are jus fooling ard and ultimately their wives r the best..guys r able to do this.. but most women cant.. unless they r prostitutes? dunnoe y.. wheneva i read and across all these in news and cases shown in dramas...i feel sad and angry.. maybe u wld sae all these onli happen in shows... but all these do happen in real life.. recently or maybe some time ago.. there was this case abt this man killing a china woman whom he had an affair with.. when his wife and children were not ard in spore... neighbours said they were v loving.. but who noes he had an affair.. and dink due to some conflict his money.. dink the woman wanted to leave him but he didnt want her to leave and she wanted she wld have to return all e money he spent on her.. but all these probs wld not have happened if he did not have an affair right.. e prob here is y people sae they were loving but he still had an affair? y can guys hide such things and love their wives everydae as if nothing has eva happened? dear told me another case which is abt a retired man who got cheated of his money till his bank account balance onli consists of 3 digits.. he got cheated by this indonesian woman.. but his wife didnt leave him.. instead stayed by him and treat him even better than before.. she was saying if she left him.. his children would leave him too.. he wld not have money.. he wld be alone too.. such a noble woman... she mus have loved him v much that she did so much for him.. the retired man was saying his wife is the best.. coz she stayed with him despite him being unfaithful.. sometimes i dun understand y women have to be noble .. and sacrifice to give them a family.. and the men not dink of the consequences before they do anything? oops.. dink this entry is to stand up for all the women in these cases.. is it coz the wives r not good to their husbands? thats y they look for outside pleasure? there is nothing wives can completely please their husbands such that they do not look for other women? the 9 oclock show .. women of times on channel 8 also shows fann wong being sucha capable and good wife.. but her husband chen2 zhi1 cai2 being a playboy flirts ard outside.. he treats fann wong very well.,. rems all the special occasions.. tells e women he have outside that he has to go back and acc his wife on weekends.. and always makes her forget all her troubles when she comes home after work... but when she is working.. he wld be outside with other gals.. he wld sae he is married.. his priority is still his wife.. no one can replace her.. so he is jus having fun with the gals whom he call " pretty flowers" ..jus dun understand y men can love their wives and yet have an affair outside.. shldnt it be this way.. if a guy loved his wife.. he wld not have fooled ard?dink its hard for women to be like men in these situations..usually when the wives betray their husbands is when they dun love their husbands.. or their husbands do not love them.. unless the women have an affair coz she is aftre the guy's money .. but usually these women r not married.. e difference is dat women cant separate love and sex like men can clearly do.. ok sounds a bit crude.. of coz not all men r like dat... there r good men ard!! jus feel dat there is a big difference bet the females and males.. maybe we r jus born to be wat we r..