sometimes its hard to come to a consensus, an agreement, a decision or any thing of this sort within a group.. everyone is different and has their own preferences, views of things, dislikes and likes, hence it is hard to get everyone to agree on the same thing.. the onli way is to compromise within the group.. the bigger the group the more difficult things are.. this has always been wat i felt..but now i feel its not always abt the size..its the combination of the preferences of each individual.. the easy going ness which is crucial for a group activity to be carried out that is more important than anything else.. of coz we have to take into account each's busy schedule.. thats difficult too.. however every group's level of easy going ness is different.. and hence the willingness to compromise differs.. ppl always tell me u cant always please everyone.. which i always hope to which makes life miserable.. my parents.. frenz tell me the same thing.. if u are in control of things jus decide on something and the rest will be fine with it.. things r not as simple.. in any case there has to be someone to come up with the best plan after gathering everyone's schedule and preferences.. and no matter how good is a plan there will be pple who cant make it or unhappy with the plan.. this is unavoidable..
have u ever tried pleasing everyone and felt miserable at the end of the dae coz everyone have clashing opinions.. i dink my weakness is always putting up a strong front and smiling at everyone.. pleasing everyone, not knowing how to reject pple , always trying to compromise thinking if no one steps back or gives in, no one will.. tired of always smiling at everyone... have u eva felt this way b4?